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Without mincing words, anybody who sees no good in others, other than his own is a negative and inferior person fighting his own ignorance and unlucky condition. These kinds of people are many among us and we must as a matter of fact learn to deal with their unlucky condition responsibly before it becomes a snare to us and damage our reputation and confidence.

People who sees no good in others simply creates a negative scenario about everything, they are trapped in such an unlucky position that if you can't help them out simply withdraw from them responsibly without raising dust about it.

Negativity is a product of low self-esteem; anybody who regards himself highly than others is struggling to create an impression of what he is not or what he is simply afraid of. This is a hard-to believe fact; it is either this individual hate his own life, hate his own job, feels frustrated or have this problem of bloated ego that is always destroying humanity.

Why would somebody chose to see no good about other people or chose to be negative about others whom he scarcely knows little about. If you can understand where his ailment is coming from, it will be much easier to help him to overcome this illness because tolerance is all about accepting every member of the new world order as one.

The good and the bad, the ugly and the beautiful, the fat and the thin, the poor and the rich, the criminally insane and the heavenly pious people among us. Our world is such a mix of characters, every region of the world has its fair share of negative people or those who sees no good in anything.

The negative individual always talk about how bad things are, how difficult everything is, how bad some group of people are, in his eyes, all Black Africans are poor and bunch of criminals, White people are scoundrels and arrogant, Asians are cheats, crafty and stingy. Everybody is bad in the eyes of a negative individual and there is nothing good about anything. He is trapped in such a negative shape of mind and full of complains without doing anything positive to deal with the issues that is unsettling his mind.

How do we help this brother who sees no good in anything, whose opinion of others and events of life is unfortunately controlled by the business oriented media who must make money at all cost by trading all those scary, false and negative information through which this individual judgments of others is based on.

Wear a positive attitude.
The image of the man who sees no good in others is all about negativity and that is what he struggles to transfer to others, to give them the impression that they are not near anything good and the idea that everything is in itself negative. He has this imaginary fear that every other person is after him and will harm his ego if he did not put them in check by being sarcastic and intolerant. Therefore, to quell his fears we will have to wear a very positive attitude and higher thinking that will accommodate his ‘weaknesses and bias'.

Someone who is negative all the time may be depressed or confused about certain issues he knows nothing or very little about. Not finding answers to the numerous questions that plague his thought process almost everyday, he finds solace in negativity. To him, nothing works, everything is evil and everybody not included in his comfort zones is a criminal. They believe this and think that if they don't whine and complain that they won't be heard and that this is the only way to get what they want.

If you find yourself in the midst of people like this, be aware of your presence and how they feel when you are around them. Prove to them that you are not a threat by your positive outlook, it might be through physical or verbal expression or any other way necessary; try to give them the impression that you could be a loyal friend if they won't mind your company. This might sound unrealistic but it does works.

This individual is just anxious about your presence manifesting that negativity he has always nursed about you and nothing ruins the happiness in one's life more than anxiety. Be yourself; love him as much as you can, maintain your optimism about who you are and do not accept such judgment that belittles you. Do not give thought to his negative reactions towards you instead turn your thoughts towards what brings you joy even at that moment.

Negative people only have the power or impact on our lives in as much capacity as we allow them to have...contd.

This is an excerpt from my new book "Wonderful World Beautiful People"
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